You Don’t Have to Choose Between Getting Better and Being a Parent

by | Apr 8, 2026 | Articles, Family and support, Leadership Insights, Recovering Hope Treatment Center Updates

Recovering Hope · Mora, Minnesota

You Don't Have to Choose Between
Getting Better and Being a Mom

At Recovering Hope, our programs are built around you and your children — so you never have to choose between healing and your family.

1 in 8Mothers struggle with substance use
Better outcomes in family-inclusive treatment
85%Of women say fear of losing kids delays help
GoldStandard care at Recovering Hope
The Reality · Minnesota · Mothers in Recovery

The Fear of Losing Your Children
Shouldn't Keep You from Getting Well

Across Minnesota, thousands of mothers are silently fighting addiction — not because they don't want help, but because the thought of being separated from their children feels like losing everything. At Recovering Hope, we built our entire program around one belief: you should never have to make that choice.

Family-centered treatment understands that recovery doesn't happen in isolation. When a mother gets healthy, her whole family gets healthier. Our programs weren't built despite motherhood — they were built around it.

The research is clear: Women who receive treatment in programs that accommodate their children have significantly higher completion rates, longer sobriety, and stronger family bonds than those who must choose between the two.

"Getting sober was the most loving thing I ever did for my kids — and having them with me made it possible to keep going."

Trauma-Informed Care

Our clinical team recognizes that substance use in women is deeply linked to trauma. We heal the whole person — not just the addiction.

Bonding That Heals

Parenting classes, mother-child therapy, and daily routines are woven into our treatment model — so recovery and motherhood grow together, not apart.

Understanding the Obstacles

The Real Barriers Women Face —
and How Recovering Hope Addresses Them

Every concern you have is one we've heard before — and built our program to answer. Here's how Recovering Hope removes each obstacle:

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"I can't leave my children behind"

Our Women's Residential program is designed for mothers and children together. Your family stays intact while you heal — that's the foundation of everything we do.

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"I'm afraid of losing custody"

Voluntarily entering treatment demonstrates responsible parenting. Our team works directly with case workers and can support you in navigating the legal and family court process.

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"I can't afford treatment"

Recovering Hope accepts Minnesota Medical Assistance (Medicaid). Many clients are surprised to find they qualify for full or partial coverage. Call us and we'll help you figure it out — no pressure.

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"What about my kids' school?"

We coordinate educational support so your children's learning never stops. Our Outpatient Lodging option also lets families stay close while maintaining more daily structure.

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"I'm ashamed — I'm their mom"

Every woman at Recovering Hope shares your story. The shame you feel is the disease talking — not the truth of who you are. Our environment is compassionate, judgment-free, and built by people who believe in you.

Recovering Hope Programs

Four Pathways to Recovery —
All Built Around Your Family

We meet you where you are. Whether you need intensive residential support or flexible outpatient care, Recovering Hope has a program designed for your situation.

Women's Residential Substance Use Disorder Treatment Most Comprehensive

Our flagship program — live-in, family-inclusive residential treatment where you and your children share a safe, structured home while you receive the gold standard of addiction care. This is where deep healing happens.

Includes trauma-focused therapy (EMDR, CBT, DBT), individual and group counseling, parenting classes, licensed childcare during sessions, life skills training, and full case management support.

Outpatient Substance Use Treatment Flexible Care

For women who need structured support but have stable housing, our outpatient program delivers intensive therapy several days a week — allowing you to maintain daily family life while still receiving expert clinical care.

Ideal as a step-down from residential treatment, or for women whose circumstances call for a less intensive starting point.

Outpatient Lodging Stability + Flexibility

A bridge between residential and outpatient care. Safe, supportive lodging gives you and your family stability and community while you attend outpatient treatment — removing the housing barrier that often stands between women and recovery.

Mental Health Services Whole-Person Care

Substance use and mental health are deeply connected — especially for women who have experienced trauma. Our integrated mental health services ensure that anxiety, depression, PTSD, and other conditions are treated alongside addiction, not after.

Available as a standalone service or woven into any of our other programs.

Not sure which program is right for you?

That's exactly what our free call is for. Call 844-314-4673 and one of our team members will walk you through your options — no commitment, no pressure, just clarity.

What every Recovering Hope program includes:

  • Trauma-informed, gender-responsive clinical care
  • Individual therapy with licensed counselors (LADC, LPCC)
  • Group therapy and peer support with other mothers in recovery
  • Parenting skills classes and mother-child therapy
  • Case management — housing, legal, child welfare navigation
  • Aftercare planning and sober community connections
  • Minnesota Medical Assistance (Medicaid) accepted
  • Led by Sadie Broekemeier, MA, LADC, LPCC — gold-standard care
"The biggest lie addiction tells a mother is that she has to choose. She doesn't. The right program holds space for all of who she is."
— Sadie Broekemeier, President · Recovering Hope
The Journey at Recovering Hope

What Your First Weeks Look Like
With Us by Your Side

The unknown is one of the hardest parts of taking that first step. Here's a realistic look at what those first weeks look like in our program:

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Days 1–7: Welcome, Stabilize & Assess

You arrive. Your children are cared for. Our clinical team conducts a full assessment and builds your personalized care plan. The chaos begins to quiet. You start to breathe again.

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Weeks 2–3: Building Your Foundation

Individual therapy begins. Group sessions with other mothers. Parenting classes. You start understanding the roots — not just the symptoms. Our team walks every step with you.

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Weeks 4–6: Deeper Healing

Trauma processing. Family therapy. Mental health support. You begin to see yourself as capable, not broken. Your children see a mother who is showing up — every single day.

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Weeks 7+: Integration, Planning & Beyond

Life skills, relapse prevention, housing support. We help you build your village. You leave Recovering Hope not just sober — but equipped, connected, and ready for your next chapter.

Addressing Your Concerns

The Questions You're Afraid to Ask

These are the real questions mothers ask when they're finally ready to reach out. You deserve honest answers.

QWill CPS take my kids if I enter treatment at Recovering Hope?

Voluntarily seeking treatment demonstrates responsible parenting. CPS involvement typically increases when addiction goes untreated. Our case managers work directly with child welfare systems and can help you understand your rights and navigate this process from day one.

QWhat if I'm pregnant — can I still come to Recovering Hope?

Yes. Getting into treatment during pregnancy is one of the most protective things you can do for your baby. Our team is experienced in prenatal care coordination and MAT (medication-assisted treatment) support for pregnant women.

QWhat if I relapse while in your program?

Relapse is part of many people's recovery journey — not a moral failure. Recovering Hope has compassionate relapse protocols that prioritize keeping you and your children safe and getting you back on track. We don't give up on you.

QMy partner or family doesn't support me going — what do I do?

You don't need anyone's permission to get well. Our team can provide family therapy to work through these dynamics, and we'll help you make decisions that center your safety and your children's wellbeing — not others' comfort.

QI've tried treatment before and it didn't work. Why would Recovering Hope be different?

Many women find their path forward on a second, third, or fourth attempt — because they finally found the right fit. Recovering Hope specializes exclusively in women and families. Our team, our environment, and our approach are designed specifically for you. Past attempts aren't failures. They led you here.

You've Already Done the Hardest Part

Reading this far means part of you is ready. You don't need to have everything figured out — you just need to make one call. Our team will handle the rest.

844-314-4673 — Free, Confidential, 24/7
For Family & Friends

If You're Reading This for Someone You Love

Watching someone you care about struggle — especially a mother with children — can feel helpless. But you holding this information is already an act of love.

The most powerful thing you can do is come alongside her with compassion, not pressure. Share this page. Sit with her while she makes the call. Tell her you believe she can do this. Our team is ready to talk to family members too.

What to say

"I found a program where you and the kids can go together. You don't have to choose. Will you let me make one call with you?"

What not to say

Avoid ultimatums, shame, or threats — they push people deeper into silence. Compassion and curiosity open more doors than confrontation ever will.

Ready to See If Recovering Hope
Is Right for You?

Book a free, confidential call with our team. We'll listen to your situation, walk you through your options, and help you understand exactly what the path forward looks like — no pressure, no commitment.

Most calls take 15–20 minutes. We accept Minnesota Medical Assistance.

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Written by Sadie Broekemeier President · MA, LADC, LPCC · Recovering Hope

Known for her boundless energy, kind spirit and unyielding commitment to serving others, Sadie ensures Recovering Hope maintains a compassionate, healing environment where clients

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