You Don’t Have to Choose Between Getting Better and Being a Parent

You Don't Have to Choose Between
Getting Better and Being a Mom
At Recovering Hope, our programs are built around you and your children — so you never have to choose between healing and your family.
The Fear of Losing Your Children
Shouldn't Keep You from Getting Well
Across Minnesota, thousands of mothers are silently fighting addiction — not because they don't want help, but because the thought of being separated from their children feels like losing everything. At Recovering Hope, we built our entire program around one belief: you should never have to make that choice.
Family-centered treatment understands that recovery doesn't happen in isolation. When a mother gets healthy, her whole family gets healthier. Our programs weren't built despite motherhood — they were built around it.
The research is clear: Women who receive treatment in programs that accommodate their children have significantly higher completion rates, longer sobriety, and stronger family bonds than those who must choose between the two.
"Getting sober was the most loving thing I ever did for my kids — and having them with me made it possible to keep going."
Trauma-Informed Care
Our clinical team recognizes that substance use in women is deeply linked to trauma. We heal the whole person — not just the addiction.
Bonding That Heals
Parenting classes, mother-child therapy, and daily routines are woven into our treatment model — so recovery and motherhood grow together, not apart.
The Real Barriers Women Face —
and How Recovering Hope Addresses Them
Every concern you have is one we've heard before — and built our program to answer. Here's how Recovering Hope removes each obstacle:
Four Pathways to Recovery —
All Built Around Your Family
We meet you where you are. Whether you need intensive residential support or flexible outpatient care, Recovering Hope has a program designed for your situation.
Our flagship program — live-in, family-inclusive residential treatment where you and your children share a safe, structured home while you receive the gold standard of addiction care. This is where deep healing happens.
Includes trauma-focused therapy (EMDR, CBT, DBT), individual and group counseling, parenting classes, licensed childcare during sessions, life skills training, and full case management support.
For women who need structured support but have stable housing, our outpatient program delivers intensive therapy several days a week — allowing you to maintain daily family life while still receiving expert clinical care.
Ideal as a step-down from residential treatment, or for women whose circumstances call for a less intensive starting point.
A bridge between residential and outpatient care. Safe, supportive lodging gives you and your family stability and community while you attend outpatient treatment — removing the housing barrier that often stands between women and recovery.
Substance use and mental health are deeply connected — especially for women who have experienced trauma. Our integrated mental health services ensure that anxiety, depression, PTSD, and other conditions are treated alongside addiction, not after.
Available as a standalone service or woven into any of our other programs.
That's exactly what our free call is for. Call 844-314-4673 and one of our team members will walk you through your options — no commitment, no pressure, just clarity.
What every Recovering Hope program includes:
- Trauma-informed, gender-responsive clinical care
- Individual therapy with licensed counselors (LADC, LPCC)
- Group therapy and peer support with other mothers in recovery
- Parenting skills classes and mother-child therapy
- Case management — housing, legal, child welfare navigation
- Aftercare planning and sober community connections
- Minnesota Medical Assistance (Medicaid) accepted
- Led by Sadie Broekemeier, MA, LADC, LPCC — gold-standard care
"The biggest lie addiction tells a mother is that she has to choose. She doesn't. The right program holds space for all of who she is."— Sadie Broekemeier, President · Recovering Hope
What Your First Weeks Look Like
With Us by Your Side
The unknown is one of the hardest parts of taking that first step. Here's a realistic look at what those first weeks look like in our program:
Days 1–7: Welcome, Stabilize & Assess
You arrive. Your children are cared for. Our clinical team conducts a full assessment and builds your personalized care plan. The chaos begins to quiet. You start to breathe again.
Weeks 2–3: Building Your Foundation
Individual therapy begins. Group sessions with other mothers. Parenting classes. You start understanding the roots — not just the symptoms. Our team walks every step with you.
Weeks 4–6: Deeper Healing
Trauma processing. Family therapy. Mental health support. You begin to see yourself as capable, not broken. Your children see a mother who is showing up — every single day.
Weeks 7+: Integration, Planning & Beyond
Life skills, relapse prevention, housing support. We help you build your village. You leave Recovering Hope not just sober — but equipped, connected, and ready for your next chapter.
The Questions You're Afraid to Ask
These are the real questions mothers ask when they're finally ready to reach out. You deserve honest answers.
Voluntarily seeking treatment demonstrates responsible parenting. CPS involvement typically increases when addiction goes untreated. Our case managers work directly with child welfare systems and can help you understand your rights and navigate this process from day one.
Yes. Getting into treatment during pregnancy is one of the most protective things you can do for your baby. Our team is experienced in prenatal care coordination and MAT (medication-assisted treatment) support for pregnant women.
Relapse is part of many people's recovery journey — not a moral failure. Recovering Hope has compassionate relapse protocols that prioritize keeping you and your children safe and getting you back on track. We don't give up on you.
You don't need anyone's permission to get well. Our team can provide family therapy to work through these dynamics, and we'll help you make decisions that center your safety and your children's wellbeing — not others' comfort.
Many women find their path forward on a second, third, or fourth attempt — because they finally found the right fit. Recovering Hope specializes exclusively in women and families. Our team, our environment, and our approach are designed specifically for you. Past attempts aren't failures. They led you here.
If You're Reading This for Someone You Love
Watching someone you care about struggle — especially a mother with children — can feel helpless. But you holding this information is already an act of love.
The most powerful thing you can do is come alongside her with compassion, not pressure. Share this page. Sit with her while she makes the call. Tell her you believe she can do this. Our team is ready to talk to family members too.
What to say
"I found a program where you and the kids can go together. You don't have to choose. Will you let me make one call with you?"
What not to say
Avoid ultimatums, shame, or threats — they push people deeper into silence. Compassion and curiosity open more doors than confrontation ever will.
Ready to See If Recovering Hope
Is Right for You?
Book a free, confidential call with our team. We'll listen to your situation, walk you through your options, and help you understand exactly what the path forward looks like — no pressure, no commitment.
Most calls take 15–20 minutes. We accept Minnesota Medical Assistance.